Showing posts with label One Little Word. Show all posts
Showing posts with label One Little Word. Show all posts
Friday, January 6, 2012
One Little Word: 2012
This year my word is BALANCE.
Balance is something I think everyone struggles with, especially when you're expected to wear multiple hats each day. This year we will be adding another sweet babe to our family and offsetting our 1:1 ratio here so I know balance will be something I need to focus on in order to keep life smooth.
In addition to our upcoming new addition, I want to try to achieve a good personal balance with family (husband and 3 kids) and work (both teaching and photography), school, scrapbooking, and daily chores/home upkeep. Balance is definitely something I want to keep forefront on my mind this year.
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Tuesday, March 8, 2011
If it is important...
A few weeks ago I found this quote on Pinterest (have you found Pinterest yet? No? Go there... find me. I'm nic073). I love it (the quote that is. I do love Pinterest but that's not what this post is about). It absolutely is the whole honest to goodness truth. I mirror this quote with the hobbies and activities I choose to fill my time with and it is true... if it is important, I find a way. All else, I tend to find an excuse. I hear a lot of people say "I don't have the time to ________ (insert activity of choice)" and in my mind I think... no, you just don't view it as a priority. If it were important to you to ____________, you would find a way. You would rearrange your schedule. You'd make time. You'd drop other time-clutter activities and find a way for those that are important.
I've done this a lot this year. There are a lot of things I have made excuses for, as well, and have realized it is because those things aren't my priorities. And that's okay. Are there things I've dropped that I feel a bit guilty about? Sure. But to me it is part of my Word. Simplicity. Finding the simplicity among the clutter... the mind clutter, the home clutter, the time clutter. It is a work in progress, and I'm sure there are things I will be deleting off my list of To-Do's and things I will be adding, but each and every one I have found I am analyzing and calculating just how it fits into this scheme of life that I find important.
So I've caught myself quite a few times making excuses... saying "I can't because..." or "I wish I had...." or "If only..." and I have been acknowleding the underlying reason for my excuses. That these things just aren't important to me right now in the grand scheme of things. Sure there might be a time in the future I want to exercise more diligantly or learn a new skill or take up a new hobby. But for now, I realize those things aren't my priority and that's okay with me.
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Friday, January 14, 2011
Simplify to the Extreme.... letting it go.
Slightly losing my mind here. Started this morning cleaning... organizing.
Cleaned out the entertainment dresser... the foyer closet (weeded out old games we don't need).... the pantry/back hallway closet..... under the kitchen sink.....
And then the kids trashed the living room and refused to clean up so they got spankings and sent to their room. And Mama went to TOWN on the playroom. 3 huge garbage bags, a bazillion gallon tub (the kind used for like... beer and pop at parties... or for horse watering bucket at Fair), all their Ikea boxes with blocks, cars, tools, Mr. Potato Head.... some games.... GONE. I raided their little toy bins in their rooms and just dumped them all into garbage bags.
In their rooms I left them with books, Hudson has some wooden blocks and his Fisher Price Farm, and Porter has his desk/art stuff and a race track in his closet.
In the playroom I left a few large cars, some puzzles, the train table (which I think I'll take the trains and tracks and pack up), and a tub with a handful of matchbox cars and a couple assorted medium sized cars to play with.
In the basement I left their two large Bruder trucks, the play house and their dress up stuff. I emptied the toybox in the basement and put their dress up stuff in there.
That is IT.
And if feels SOOO SOOO good.
The guest room is now jam packed. I still have a lot of gathering to do with misc stuff around the house. I am debating on whether to put all of it up into the attic and deal with it later or slowly go through all those bags and boxes and get rid of stuff then put the rest up into the attic. I literally was DUMPING things into garbage bags so it is slightly disorganized.
Today is a good day... I'm in a mood. A "just throw the damn thing away already" mood (as opposed to "I miiiight need it someday" kind of mood). Next up... my office. Packing up my photography stuff, probably my sewing stuff (because when the eff am I going to have time to sew??) and throwing away TONS.
Just letting it go. Letting it go.
Cleaned out the entertainment dresser... the foyer closet (weeded out old games we don't need).... the pantry/back hallway closet..... under the kitchen sink.....
And then the kids trashed the living room and refused to clean up so they got spankings and sent to their room. And Mama went to TOWN on the playroom. 3 huge garbage bags, a bazillion gallon tub (the kind used for like... beer and pop at parties... or for horse watering bucket at Fair), all their Ikea boxes with blocks, cars, tools, Mr. Potato Head.... some games.... GONE. I raided their little toy bins in their rooms and just dumped them all into garbage bags.
In their rooms I left them with books, Hudson has some wooden blocks and his Fisher Price Farm, and Porter has his desk/art stuff and a race track in his closet.
In the playroom I left a few large cars, some puzzles, the train table (which I think I'll take the trains and tracks and pack up), and a tub with a handful of matchbox cars and a couple assorted medium sized cars to play with.
In the basement I left their two large Bruder trucks, the play house and their dress up stuff. I emptied the toybox in the basement and put their dress up stuff in there.
That is IT.
And if feels SOOO SOOO good.
The guest room is now jam packed. I still have a lot of gathering to do with misc stuff around the house. I am debating on whether to put all of it up into the attic and deal with it later or slowly go through all those bags and boxes and get rid of stuff then put the rest up into the attic. I literally was DUMPING things into garbage bags so it is slightly disorganized.
Today is a good day... I'm in a mood. A "just throw the damn thing away already" mood (as opposed to "I miiiight need it someday" kind of mood). Next up... my office. Packing up my photography stuff, probably my sewing stuff (because when the eff am I going to have time to sew??) and throwing away TONS.
Just letting it go. Letting it go.

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Simplify
One Little Word
This year I've been thinking of somewhat "following" One Little Word. I'm not signing up for the class (as that would somewhat contradict my Word for 2011) but I am going to read her past posts on OLW and try to incorporate it into my life daily... weekly... to make it a focus. Denise did a great post about this as well.
From Ali's blog (back in 2007 when she started OLW):
"A single word can be a powerful thing. It can be the ripple in the pond that changes everything. It can sharp and biting or rich and soft and slow."

From Ali's blog (back in 2007 when she started OLW):
"A single word can be a powerful thing. It can be the ripple in the pond that changes everything. It can sharp and biting or rich and soft and slow."
It can be something tangible or intangible. It could be a
thought or a feeling or an emotion. It can be singular or
plural. The key is to find something that has personal
meaning for you. This is not your mother’s word or your
spouse’s word or your child’s word – this is YOUR
word.
thought or a feeling or an emotion. It can be singular or
plural. The key is to find something that has personal
meaning for you. This is not your mother’s word or your
spouse’s word or your child’s word – this is YOUR
word.
One little word can have big meaning in your life if you allow
yourself to be open to the possibilities. And here’s one thing
that is totally interesting: sometimes a word will pop into
your brain and it will not make any sense to you right now.
Give it some time. Let it percolate a bit. I have often
found that our hearts speak to us in very unique ways.
Maybe this is a word you need to hear but just aren’t ready
for it yet. Again, be open to the possibilities.
yourself to be open to the possibilities. And here’s one thing
that is totally interesting: sometimes a word will pop into
your brain and it will not make any sense to you right now.
Give it some time. Let it percolate a bit. I have often
found that our hearts speak to us in very unique ways.
Maybe this is a word you need to hear but just aren’t ready
for it yet. Again, be open to the possibilities.

There were a few words that came to mind right away. I decided to look up the definitions to help narrow my possibilities.
In the end I chose simplicity. It encompasses so much of what my goals are this year... to simplify the crazy in my life and to get down to the nitty gritty and focus on what really matters. I think I'm going to have a piece of jewelry made with my One Little Word for each year. Keeping it near and dear may help reinforce its priority in my life.
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